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Most of us have normal marriages. Not perfect marriages and not Charlie Manson type marriages. Just normal marriages that are both fun and frustrating. The purpose of this blog is to help you enjoy your "less-than-perfect normal marriage."

How to Be More Resilient in Marriage

By Bret Legg 104| October 21, 2021

IS YOUR GLASS HALF-EMPTY OR HALF-FULL? I tend to be a glass-half-full person. But there are still times when demands, difficulties, and disappointments can easily drain my glass. It happens … Read more

Is Your Thinking Getting You in Trouble?

By Bret Legg 104| October 14, 2021

We’re going to take a break from our series “The List” and look at something that causes a lot of problems in marriage but typically goes unseen and undetected. It’s … Read more

How to Waste Your Marriage…and Your Life

By Bret Legg 104| October 7, 2021

  I’m currently in a season where it’s hard to get everything done I need to get done. (Know how that feels?) So I thought, rather than not deliver anything, … Read more

The List – Withhold Affection

By Bret Legg 104| September 23, 2021

Withholding affection is another item on the list of ways you can lose your marriage. If this seems obvious, it’s because so many spouses feel a great lack of affection … Read more

The List – Don’t Accept Your Spouse

By Bret Legg 104| September 16, 2021

  Note: We are currently in a series called “The List.” The list refers to a list of ways you can lose your marriage, and is based on information gleaned … Read more

The List – Don’t Accept Your Spouse

By Bret Legg 104| September 9, 2021

Note: We are currently in a series called “The List.” The list refers to a list of ways you can lose your marriage and is based on information gleaned from … Read more

The List – Insist on Doing Things As Your Family Did

By Bret Legg 104| September 2, 2021

My wife and I had only been married for six months, and it was Christmas eve. We had finished dinner, and I was preparing to watch some Christmas specials when … Read more

The List – Don’t Do Anything About Your Depression and Anxiety

By Bret Legg 104| August 26, 2021

Note: We are currently in a series called “The List.” The list refers to a list of ways you can lose your marriage, and is based on information gleaned from … Read more

The List – Wait for Your Spouse to Go First

By Bret Legg 104| August 19, 2021

Note: We are currently in a series called “The List.” The list refers to a list of ways you can lose your marriage, and is based on information gleaned from … Read more

The List – Let Anger Have It’s Way

By Bret Legg 104| August 12, 2021

Note: We are currently in a series called “The List.” The list refers to a list of ways you can lose your marriage, and is based on information gleaned from … Read more