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Most of us have normal marriages. Not perfect marriages and not Charlie Manson type marriages. Just normal marriages that are both fun and frustrating. The purpose of this blog is to help you enjoy your "less-than-perfect normal marriage."

The Windshield and the Rearview Mirror

By Bret Legg 104| January 8, 2015

Every life has both a windshield and a rearview mirror. That may sound too philosophical and cause some of you to stop reading, but it’s true. In every life, there’s a … Read more

Small Changes Can Have A Big Impact

By Bret Legg 104| January 6, 2015

What if a better marriage didn’t demand a major over-haul? What if you could have a better marriage by making small changes? I believe that small changes can have a big … Read more

Patterns

By Bret Legg 104| January 1, 2015

This time of the year, there’s a lot of talk about new year’s resolutions. Lose weight. Get organized. Eat healthy. Get on a budget. The list is long and varied, … Read more

Can I Help?

By Bret Legg 104| December 26, 2014

It was a simple question: “Can I help?” But one young man breathed new life into my soul with that simple question. I was out raking my yard… But first, … Read more

The Right Gift Every Time

By Bret Legg 104| December 23, 2014

Is there a way we can be confident we’re giving the right gift every time…no matter what? We’re just a few days away from Christmas, and perhaps you’re still out … Read more

Marriage and Sex Should Go Together.

By Bret Legg 104| December 16, 2014

When I say marriage and sex should go together, you may think, “Well duh. That’s a no-brainer!” But there are too many times where marriage and sex don’t necessarily go together…or … Read more

Find a Reason to Stay Together

By Bret Legg 104| December 9, 2014

If you haven’t noticed, I’m a big fan of marriage. I’m like the person who finds a reason to root for their favorite team, even if their team isn’t doing … Read more

Think Before You Post

By Bret Legg 104| December 4, 2014

There’s something magical about social media. For instance, it’s magical that no matter where you are, you can post a message and instantly connect with people all over the globe. But … Read more

Little Things Mean A Lot – Spending Time Together

By Bret Legg 104| December 2, 2014

Typically, the more time you spend on something the better it gets. This can be true in marriage. Generally, when husbands and wives spend more time together their marriage gets better. But in many … Read more

Has Your Marriage Moved From Breathtaking To Frustrating?

By Bret Legg 104| November 25, 2014

I’ve never been to the Grand Canyon, but I’ve talked to people who have and they tell me it’s breathtaking.  They say you’ll stand in awe of the beauty of … Read more