Most of us have normal marriages. Not perfect marriages and not Charlie Manson type marriages. Just normal marriages that are both fun and frustrating. The purpose of this blog is to help you enjoy your "less-than-perfect normal marriage."
The Pandemic of Pornography
A Pandemic Problem. We have seen a lot of loss in recent days due to a worldwide pandemic, but we have been suffering from a virus that is much more … Read more
Watching the Titanic Sink…Over and Over Again
No matter how many times I see Jame Cameron’s movie “Titanic,” I am always uneasy each time I watch that ship slowly submerge, violently break apart, and then disappear … Read more
How to Lose a Fight
When it comes to marital fights, I know two things… FIRST – EVERY COUPLE FIGHTS. Some spouses fight like a hurricane, while some spouses fight like a gentle spring storm. … Read more
The Pandemic Marriage
You may think this post on marriage in a pandemic is a little late. But, when the pandemic first broke, I like many others, expected it to be a … Read more
Minding the Gaps:Dealing with the Differences Between Spouses
Dealing with the differences between you and your spouse is one of the most common frustrations in marriage. It’s funny how the differences we found so attractive when we were … Read more
Are You A Good Kisser?
Are you a good kisser? Probably not a question you’re asked a lot – if at all! And how do you answer such a question? If you answer “no,” you … Read more
Are You a Doer or a Waiter?
When your car needs serviced, do you take initiative to get it serviced, or do you wait, hoping your spouse will do it? Or, when there are dirty dishes in … Read more
Firing Up Your Marriage the Right Kindling
Sometimes, my wife and I will meet our kids and grandkids out on a wooded piece of property they own. There, the kids fish in the pond and play in … Read more
What are the Glory Days of Your Marriage?
Glory days. If you’re a Bruce Springsteen fan, those words will automatically bring a great song to mind. But the concept of glory days has been around much longer than … Read more
Don’t Feel Attracted to Your Spouse? Try These 4 Principles.
It seems like attraction should be a key ingredient in marriage. After all, we all want to be attracted to our spouse, and we want our spouse to be attracted … Read more