Genesis 24 – Big Principles for Big Decisions

I could boil my life down to a few big decisions. The decision to get married, the decision to follow Christ, the decision to have children, the decision to enter the ministry and the decision to quit my job and move my family to seminary.
Big decisions vary from person to person, but because there’s so much riding on these big decisions, they can fill us with angst and uncertainty.
Genesis chapter 24 is a story about a big decision. In this chapter, Abraham sends his servant to find just the right wife for Isaac. Isaac was the miraculous son that God gave Abraham; the son through which a great nation was to be formed. So this was a big decision for Abraham’s servant!
In this story, you’ll find 3 important principles on which every big decision should rest.
The Providence of God. It’s so easy to forget that God can and does engineer and/or oversee every circumstance to fulfill His good and perfect will for us. (Romans 8:28.)
The Purpose of Prayer. Abraham’s servant prayed…not to manipulate God’s will, but to reveal it. Too often we see prayer as a means to get God to do the things we want Him to do, rather than a means of revealing what God wants to do and aligning with that.
 
The Place of Worship. When it was clear that Rebekah was God’s pick for Isaac, Abraham’s servant immediately stopped and worshiped. Worship is a response to God for what He’s done for us…the spontaneous proclaiming of God’s obvious intervention in our lives.
The stress and anxiety of our life could be greatly reduced if we would face every decision (big and small) anchored in the providence of God, the purpose of prayer and the place of worship.
Bret Legg is the Teaching and Counseling Pastor at Warren Baptist Church in Augusta, GA.

Is Your Marriage Approaching Zero Gravity? – Part 2

Gravity is an essential part of life. Without it, things would drift away into space. Likewise, gravity is an essential part of marriage. Without marital gravity, spouses begin to drift apart. And if they drift too far apart, it can bring an end to the marriage.

In my last post, I talked about four things you needed to increase your marital gravity. They were four things that would help draw you closer to one another and keep you from drifting apart. (Check out my last post, “Is Your Marriage Approaching Zero Gravity – Part 1.”)

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Genesis 23 – Promised Land and Burial Plots

Since Genesis chapter 12, God has promised Abraham ownership of the land through which he’s wondered. In Genesis chapter 23, God begins to fulfill that promise…but not in the way you would think.
This chapter opens with the death of Abraham’s wife, Sarah. As a vagabond, Abraham owns no land on which to bury his wife. So he negotiates with one of the locals to buy a plot of land, and there he buries his beloved Sarah.
It’s interesting that of all the land God promised to Abraham, the first piece of ground Abraham officially owns is a burial plot.
As believers, we too are told of a promise land that will one day be ours. Our claim to this land began with a burial plot…the burial plot of Jesus. And our ownership of that land is complete with another burial plot…our own.
Perhaps ownership of any promised land involves a death and burial. There are things in our life that need to die and be buried if we are to lay claim to the promise land God has for us. You can see this in the Galatians 2:20 and Colossians 3:5. The problem is, we often try to avoid the death and burial of certain things in our life. We try to avoid the loss only to discover we then miss the gain. (Mark 8:36.) (Hebrews 12:2.)
God wants so much for us, but sometimes achieving His promised land will involve some burial plots. Are you trying to find a promised land without experiencing loss or burial? Could it be that the loss and grief you hope to avoid are actually part of gaining the promised land God has for you?
Bret Legg is the Teaching and Counseling Pastor at Warren Baptist Church in Augusta, GA.

Genesis 22 – How Much Do You Love Me?

When my children were young, they would randomly come up to me and ask, “How much do you love me?” I would tell them something like, “I love you more than ice cream.” Then we would go back and forth answering that question; each trying to top the other.
In Genesis chapter 22, God wants to find out how much Abraham loves Him. God asks Abraham if he loves Him enough to sacrifice his son Isaac.
This is a radical request in and of itself, but it’s especially strange when you look at Abraham’s track record. Abraham left his home and relatives at God’s command. He wandered as a vagabond in a strange land, just because God told him to. He regularly built altars, worshipping and praying to God. With very few exceptions, Abraham was obedient to God at every turn.
Hadn’t Abraham proven himself? Didn’t all this show how much he loved God? Why would God put Abraham’s love to the test by asking Him to sacrifice his son?
The real test of how much we love God is not found in our worship, words or work. The real test of how much we love God comes down to this…what are we holding onto and what is it we don’t want to give up? This is the true and undeniable gauge of how much we love God.
What about you? Is there something in your life you hope God doesn’t request of you? What would be hard for you to give up, and could you do it if God asked you to?
Bret Legg is the Teaching and Counseling Pastor at Warren Baptist Church in Augusta, GA.

Is Your Marriage Approaching Zero Gravity? – Part 1

When I hear the word “gravity,” I think of different things. I think of an apple falling on Newton’s head. I think of the John Mayer song, “Gravity.” I think of giant pieces of space junk falling from the sky and wiping out my house…and my homeowners insurance refusing to cover it.

But I don’t usually think of marriage when I hear the word, “gravity.” What does gravity have to do with marriage any way…aside from the fact it bears down on all of us, causing us to shrink and sag?

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Genesis 21 – Who Do You Trust?

When it comes to trust, we all tend to favor one of three choices: We trust in ourselves, we trust in others or we trust in God.
In Genesis chapter 16, Sarah didn’t trust God to provide a child. Instead, she trusted her own efforts and gave her servant girl (Hagar) to Abraham as a surrogate with which to conceive a child.
In Genesis chapter 21, Sarah gives birth to the son that God had promised…Isaac. This creates contention and rivalry between the two women and their children. Hagar, who had always trusted Abraham and Sarah to take care of her, is now sent away into the wilderness, at Sarah insistence. Out of supplies and waiting to die, Hagar encounters God and is told she would not only survive, but her son would become a great nation of people.
Both Sarah and Hagar had trouble with trust. Sarah trusted in her own efforts for a son. Her efforts came up short, but God was faithful. Hagar trusted in others to take care of her. Those people came up short, but God was faithful. Only Abraham chose to trust God first and foremost.
Is it wrong to work hard or to turn to friends and family for help? Not at all. The problem comes when we turn to these options first and trust them more than God.
When times are difficult, are you Like Sarah? Is your first inclination to roll up your sleeves and try to make something happen yourself? Are you like Hagar? Do you depend on other people to make things happen for you? Or are you like Abraham? Do you look to God first and trust Him no matter how things appear?
Who do you trust?
Bret Legg is the Teaching and Counseling Pastor at Warren Baptist Church in Augusta, GA.

Genesis 20 – Are You Afraid to Speak Up?

Have you ever felt you needed to speak up about something, but you didn’t for fear that others wouldn’t receive it well? Maybe you were afraid your spouse would be angry. Maybe you were afraid your boss would turn on you. Maybe you were afraid you would lose friends. Whatever the reason, you were afraid to speak up.
This was Abraham’s problem in Genesis chapter 20. He and his wife Sarah had journeyed to the land of Gerar. While they were there, the king of that country became attracted to Sarah and wanted to take her for his wife…not realizing that she was Abraham’s wife.
Abraham and Sarah were afraid to tell the king the truth for fear the king would have Abraham killed and take Sarah anyway. So they told the king that Sarah was Abraham’s sister.
Before the king consummated his relationship with Sarah, God revealed to him that Sarah was Abraham’s wife and that the king had committed a grave error for which there would be severe consequences. The king professed his ignorance of God and then quickly went to Abraham to confront him about his deception and make things right.
Abraham’s fear kept him from speaking up, but his failure to speak up put the king and others at risk. Ephesians 4:15 calls us to speak the truth in love because avoiding the truth can cause us and others harm.
Where does fear keep you from speaking up when you should? How might your hesitancy be hurtful to you and to others? What do you need to do?
Bret Legg is the Teaching and Counseling Pastor at Warren Baptist Church in Augusta, GA.

Genesis 19 – Stop Procrastinating and Start Packing

What parent hasn’t had the experience of telling their child it was time to go, only to find them dragging their feet and trying to negotiate the departure.
In Genesis chapter 19, Abraham’s nephew (Lot) is living in the wicked city of Sodom, where he’s become a leader. One evening, Lot encounters two angels sent from God to destroy the city, and he convinces them to take shelter in his home.
The wickedness of the people of Sodom becomes undeniable when the men of the city storm Lot’s house and demand he turn over the two visitors for the purpose of sexual gratification.
At this point, the angels urge Lot and his family to evacuate the city and escape the coming destruction. But despite the gravity of the situation, Lot and his family members drag their feet. Finally, just before sunrise, the angels take Lot, his wife and his daughters by the hand and forcibly lead them out of the city to save them from the destruction.
Why were Lot and his family so hesitant to pack up and go? Maybe it was because Lot found it hard to leave his sons-in-law, who thought he was kidding and refused to leave. Maybe Lot and his family found it hard to leave behind all they had built and accumulated. Whatever the reason, they were procrastinating when they should have been packing.
Has God called you to make some kind of change and you’re procrastinating? God can be merciful and patient with our hesitancies, just as He was with Lot and his family, but eventually, the time comes where we must stop procrastinating and start packing…before things get worse.
Bret Legg is the Teaching and Counseling Pastor at Warren Baptist Church in Augusta, GA.

Genesis 18 – Back to Basics

When we’re young, we’re taught the basics…
  • Say “please” and “thank you.”
  • Sit up straight at the table.
  • Be kind to others.
  • Don’t lie.
As we get older, it’s easy to let the basics slip as we get buried under ever-increasing demands.
The same is true spiritually. When we first come to God, we learn the basics of how we’re to live. But over time, we let those basics slip as we get buried under ever-increasing demands.
In Genesis chapter eighteen, God visits Abraham and tells him two things. First, his ninety-year-old wife (Sarah) will soon be pregnant. Second, the city of Sodom (home of his Nephew Lot) will be destroyed.
Though these events are dramatic but don’t miss some of the basics communicated in this chapter.
  • Hospitality is important. Abraham’s encounter with God began with an act of hospitality. At that time, hospitality was critical to the survival of travelers, but hospitality is still to be a core practice of God’s people. Hebrews 13:1-2.
  • Nothing is too hard for God. At their age, having a child was an impossibility for Abraham and Sarah, but there are no impossibilities with God. Matthew 19:26.
  • Righteousness makes a difference. God was willing to spare a city and culture (though wicked) for the sake of the righteous. Our world needs our righteousness. Philippians 2:14-15.
  • Never stop interceding for others. When Abraham learned that God was going to destroy the city of Sodom, he kept pressing God to spare the city and his nephew. We should do the same. 1 Timothy 2:1-4.
Have you let these basics slip amidst the ever-increasing demands of life? Which one of these basics do you need to reclaim today?
Bret Legg is the Teaching and Counseling Pastor at Warren Baptist Church in Augusta, GA.

Would You Lay Down Your Life For Your Spouse?

When asked, “What would you be willing to do for your spouse?” most of us are quick to profess how we would lay down our life for our spouse. We would step in front of a gunman’s bullet. We would shield them from the blast of a terrorist’s pipe bomb. We would put ourselves between them and an angry herd of parent eating toddlers. (Ok, maybe not that last one.)

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