Bret Legg
Is Your Marriage Approaching Zero Gravity? – Part 2
Gravity is an essential part of life. Without it, things would drift away into space. Likewise, gravity is an essential part of marriage. Without marital gravity, spouses begin to drift apart. And if they drift too far apart, it can bring an end to the marriage.
In my last post, I talked about four things you needed to increase your marital gravity. They were four things that would help draw you closer to one another and keep you from drifting apart. (Check out my last post, “Is Your Marriage Approaching Zero Gravity – Part 1.”)
Genesis 23 – Promised Land and Burial Plots
Genesis 22 – How Much Do You Love Me?
Is Your Marriage Approaching Zero Gravity? – Part 1
When I hear the word “gravity,” I think of different things. I think of an apple falling on Newton’s head. I think of the John Mayer song, “Gravity.” I think of giant pieces of space junk falling from the sky and wiping out my house…and my homeowners insurance refusing to cover it.
But I don’t usually think of marriage when I hear the word, “gravity.” What does gravity have to do with marriage any way…aside from the fact it bears down on all of us, causing us to shrink and sag?
Genesis 21 – Who Do You Trust?
Genesis 20 – Are You Afraid to Speak Up?
Genesis 19 – Stop Procrastinating and Start Packing
Genesis 18 – Back to Basics
- Say “please” and “thank you.”
- Sit up straight at the table.
- Be kind to others.
- Don’t lie.
- Hospitality is important. Abraham’s encounter with God began with an act of hospitality. At that time, hospitality was critical to the survival of travelers, but hospitality is still to be a core practice of God’s people. Hebrews 13:1-2.
- Nothing is too hard for God. At their age, having a child was an impossibility for Abraham and Sarah, but there are no impossibilities with God. Matthew 19:26.
- Righteousness makes a difference. God was willing to spare a city and culture (though wicked) for the sake of the righteous. Our world needs our righteousness. Philippians 2:14-15.
- Never stop interceding for others. When Abraham learned that God was going to destroy the city of Sodom, he kept pressing God to spare the city and his nephew. We should do the same. 1 Timothy 2:1-4.
Would You Lay Down Your Life For Your Spouse?
When asked, “What would you be willing to do for your spouse?” most of us are quick to profess how we would lay down our life for our spouse. We would step in front of a gunman’s bullet. We would shield them from the blast of a terrorist’s pipe bomb. We would put ourselves between them and an angry herd of parent eating toddlers. (Ok, maybe not that last one.)