Most of us have normal marriages. Not perfect marriages and not Charlie Manson type marriages. Just normal marriages that are both fun and frustrating. The purpose of this blog is to help you enjoy your less-than-perfect normal marriage."
Signs of Life
I was talking to a friend who is somewhat particular about his yard, and he told me there are two parts of his yard that are his favorite spots. I … Read more
4 Simple Things That Will Improve Sex in Marriage
Maybe you’re in one of those rare marriages where sex is not a problem. Maybe you both agree on the when, where, and how of sex. If so, count yourself … Read more
Where is Your Home…Really?
I was driving to work one morning in a bit of a funk. It had been a long and taxing week and I was just feeling a little…blah! I had … Read more
Not Another Marriage List!
We’ve all seen them. They’re in the magazines that line the grocery store check-out aisles. They’re scattered throughout our social media feeds. They are written by academics, psychologists, and freelance … Read more
A Small Surprise Makes a Big Impact
In the spirit of full disclosure, let me say this is a post I need to take to heart as much as anyone. Just ask my spouse. A STORY Not … Read more
How to Spot an Immature Spouse
This is my wedding photo. When I look at this photo, I can’t help but notice how young and immature I was. I was only 21 years old. I … Read more
UPS Can Clear Up Your Communication
IT’S NOT A LACK OF COMMUNICATION You’ve heard it a million times. “Communication is the key to a good marriage.” This cliché statement has caused many an eye-roll in marriage, … Read more
The One Thing No Spouse Wants To Deal With
No one wants them. We try to avoid them. But if you’re married, you can’t avoid them. So we skirt them and try to spend as little time as possible … Read more
The Pandemic of Pornography
A Pandemic Problem. We have seen a lot of loss in recent days due to a worldwide pandemic, but we have been suffering from a virus that is much more … Read more
Watching the Titanic Sink…Over and Over Again
No matter how many times I see Jame Cameron’s movie “Titanic,” I am always uneasy each time I watch that ship slowly submerge, violently break apart, and then disappear … Read more