Most of us have normal marriages. Not perfect marriages and not Charlie Manson type marriages. Just normal marriages that are both fun and frustrating. The purpose of this blog is to help you enjoy your less-than-perfect normal marriage."

Minding the Gaps:Dealing with the Differences Between Spouses

By Bret Legg 104| February 18, 2021

Dealing with the differences between you and your spouse is one of the most common frustrations in marriage. It’s funny how the differences we found so attractive when we were … Read more

Are You A Good Kisser?

By Bret Legg 104| February 11, 2021

Are you a good kisser? Probably not a question you’re asked a lot – if at all! And how do you answer such a question? If you answer “no,” you … Read more

Are You a Doer or a Waiter?

By Bret Legg 104| February 4, 2021

When your car needs serviced, do you take initiative to get it serviced, or do you wait, hoping your spouse will do it? Or, when there are dirty dishes in … Read more

Firing Up Your Marriage the Right Kindling

By Bret Legg 104| January 28, 2021

Sometimes, my wife and I will meet our kids and grandkids out on a wooded piece of property they own. There, the kids fish in the pond and play in … Read more

What are the Glory Days of Your Marriage?

By Bret Legg 104| January 21, 2021

Glory days. If you’re a Bruce Springsteen fan, those words will automatically bring a great song to mind. But the concept of glory days has been around much longer than … Read more

Don’t Feel Attracted to Your Spouse? Try These 4 Principles.

By Bret Legg 104| January 14, 2021

It seems like attraction should be a key ingredient in marriage. After all, we all want to be attracted to our spouse, and we want our spouse to be attracted … Read more

What to Do if Your Spouse is Not Interested in Sex

By Bret Legg 104| December 17, 2020

In the last post, we looked at what can cause your sex drive to run out of gas. We also talked about some things you might be able to do … Read more

Is Your Sex Drive Running Low?

By Bret Legg 104| December 10, 2020

It’s normal in marriage for one spouse to have a lower sex drive than the other. But when one spouse exhibits little to no sex drive, it can be an … Read more

Do You Know Your Spouse?

By Bret Legg 104| December 3, 2020

Maybe you read the title of this post and thought, “I don’t need this post. I know my spouse.” I’ve thought the same thing. I’ve been married for over forty … Read more

Developing a Thankful Attitude in Marriage

By Bret Legg 104| November 26, 2020

We all have things about our spouse we don’t like. Things like… How they leave their shoes lying around. How they make noise when they eat. How they tend to … Read more