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Most of us have normal marriages. Not perfect marriages and not Charlie Manson type marriages. Just normal marriages that are both fun and frustrating. The purpose of this blog is to help you enjoy your "less-than-perfect normal marriage."

Shouldn’t Spouses Be Compatible?

By Bret Legg 104| March 4, 2014

Compatibility.  It’s the idea that if you can find a person with similar personality traits, similar interests, similar backgrounds, etc. then there will be a higher probability of the relationship … Read more

How Do You Find The Sweet Spot In Marriage?

By Bret Legg 104| February 25, 2014

There’s a sweet spot to many things in life.  There’s a sweet spot on a baseball bat that sends the ball over the fence.  There’s a sweet spot for musicians … Read more

As Good As Sex…Almost

By Bret Legg 104| February 17, 2014

It was the biggest ice storms in ten years.  Our power went out around 8:30 in the evening, so we lit candles and fired up the gas log in the … Read more

What Is Your Benchmark?

By Bret Legg 104| February 12, 2014

Surveyors use a benchmark to determine clear boundaries.  A benchmark is a point of reference from which everything else is measured.  It’s a point that’s unchanging and immovable, because a … Read more