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Most of us have normal marriages. Not perfect marriages and not Charlie Manson type marriages. Just normal marriages that are both fun and frustrating. The purpose of this blog is to help you enjoy your "less-than-perfect normal marriage."

How the Heart of a Marriage Survives a Near Fatal Heart Surgery

By Bret Legg 104| July 26, 2018

In the following guest post by Debbie Latour, you will hear how a married couple faced a dangerous heart surgery and came out stronger in love, life, and faith. When … Read more

How To Be A Better Person

By Bret Legg 104| June 21, 2018

If you want to know how to be a better spouse and have a better marriage, it starts with learning how to be a better person. Right now, my spouse … Read more

I Learned 3 Simple Marriage Rules From a Preschooler

By Bret Legg 104| June 14, 2018

Last weekend, I learned three simple marriage rules from a preschooler when I picked up my four-year-old granddaughter for a much needed date. It was a standard date for us: getting … Read more

How Parenting Can Improve Partnering

By Bret Legg 104| June 7, 2018

In my last post (How Partnering Can Improve Parenting,) we looked at how improving your marriage could improve your parenting. It stressed the importance of making sure your partnering takes … Read more

How Partnering Can Improve Parenting

By Bret Legg 104| May 25, 2018

We don’t often think of how parenting can improve partnering. Usually, we think of just the opposite…how parenting makes partnering harder. We instantly think of all the demands parenting makes on … Read more

3 Questions for an Ailing Marriage

By Bret Legg 104| May 15, 2018

I’ve discovered three questions you can use to diagnose an ailing marriage. I would like to tell you I discovered these questions while completing my graduate degree in Marriage and … Read more

Trick Questions and Expectations in Marriage

By Bret Legg 104| April 23, 2018

Trick questions can be…well…tricky. For instance, how would you answer this question: “Have you stopped beating your spouse?” Answering this question is tricky, because if you agree, it sounds like … Read more

How Parents Can Bring Out the Best in Their Teenagers

By Bret Legg 104| April 5, 2018

In my last post, How Teenagers Bring Out the Worst in Their Parents, I talked abut the very difficult job of raising teenagers, and how it can effect parents. In … Read more

How Teenagers Bring Out the Worst in Their Parents

By Bret Legg 104| March 29, 2018

I typically write posts focused on marriage, but this post is going to veer more into the area of parenting. Specifically, parenting teenagers, and more specifically, how teenagers bring out the … Read more

Getting Over the Wall of Resentment

By Bret Legg 104| March 23, 2018

Resentment can be like a wall that separates spouses, and the longer the wall stays up, the harder it is to get over it. Walls of resentment can become so … Read more