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Most of us have normal marriages. Not perfect marriages and not Charlie Manson type marriages. Just normal marriages that are both fun and frustrating. The purpose of this blog is to help you enjoy your "less-than-perfect normal marriage."

What I’ve Learned About Marriage From Buying a House – One More Thing

By Bret Legg 104| July 7, 2015

Are you a flaw finder? Do you focus more on what’s wrong than what’s right? Do you point out problems more than pinpoint positives? Last week I posted what I thought would be … Read more

Are You Taking In Life or Taken In By Life?

By Bret Legg 104| July 3, 2015

Here’s a question for you: are you taking in life or are you taken in by life? Everyone does a little of both, but you probably lean toward one more than the other. … Read more

What I’ve Learned About Marriage From Buying a House – Part 8

By Bret Legg 104| June 30, 2015

Well, we’re in our new house! Not everything is put away yet, but it’s livable and we can get both cars in the garage! So, I’ll close this series with one … Read more

How to Change an Ordinary Life

By Bret Legg 104| June 24, 2015

While on vacation this week, I read a short blog post by Allison Vesterfelt entitled “The Difference Between an Ordinary Life and an Extraordinary One.” It was a great reminder … Read more

What I’ve Learned About Marriage From Buying a House – Part 7

By Bret Legg 104| June 15, 2015

Finally! All our stuff was packed. It was all on a truck, or jammed into a car. So I went back into the house and took a final look around. … Read more

What I’ve Learned About Marriage From Buying a House – Part 6

By Bret Legg 104| June 2, 2015

“You have to be patient.” I didn’t like hearing that advice as a child and I’m not a big fan of it as an adult. It’s difficult to be patient. … Read more

Too Many Choices

By Bret Legg 104| May 28, 2015

Too many choices. Ever felt that way? You turn on your TV and there’s over 300 channels. You go to the grocery store and there are at least ten different types … Read more

What I’ve Learned About Marriage From Buying a House – Part 5

By Bret Legg 104| May 26, 2015

“You’re not done yet.” This is what I’ve been telling myself lately. We’re very close to moving into a new home, and I’m sure some of you are tired of hearing this … Read more

Scars

By Bret Legg 104| May 22, 2015

If you live long enough you’re going to get a few scars. They are the badges of memories, stories, and life. I have a scar on my left palm that I … Read more

What I’ve Learned About Marriage From Buying a House – Part 4

By Bret Legg 104| May 18, 2015

Let me just cut to the chase here. One of the things I’ve learned from this house buying experience is that if you want to get from the house you … Read more