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Most of us have normal marriages. Not perfect marriages and not Charlie Manson type marriages. Just normal marriages that are both fun and frustrating. The purpose of this blog is to help you enjoy your less-than-perfect normal marriage."

How to Waste Your Marriage…and Your Life

By Bret Legg 104| February 5, 2018

It’s so easy to waste your marriage on things that don’t benefit you or your spouse. The problem is, you often don’t realize it until it’s too late. So below … Read moreHow to Waste Your Marriage…and Your Life

Mishaps in Messaging

By Bret Legg 104| January 25, 2018

My wife is not much for talking on the phone. She prefers to text, so she often texts rather than calls. The problem is, if she’s texting someone when we’re … Read moreMishaps in Messaging

How to Embrace Change

By Bret Legg 104| January 13, 2018

People who know me know I am not a handyman. I’m someone who can turn a simple fifteen minute fix-it job into an all day nightmare. I am the guy … Read moreHow to Embrace Change

Have You Lost the Magic?

By Bret Legg 104| January 7, 2018

Couples come into my counseling office for many reasons. Some are having on-going conflicts they can’t resolve. Others are having trouble with their parents or in-laws. Some are struggling in their … Read moreHave You Lost the Magic?

Fearing Forward – The New Year

By Bret Legg 104| December 31, 2017

Some face a new year with much anticipation. Others face a new year with some fear and dread. As you look back over the last twelve months, maybe your life … Read moreFearing Forward – The New Year

Merry Christmas

By Bret Legg 104| December 25, 2017

The Silent Killers of Marriage

By Bret Legg 104| December 14, 2017

“Acting for the first time in 14 years, the American Heart Association and the American College of Cardiology redefined high blood pressure as a reading of 130 over 80, down … Read moreThe Silent Killers of Marriage

Are You A Good Lover?

By Bret Legg 104| November 30, 2017

How am I suppose to find the answer to the question, “Are you a good lover?” If I ask myself that question, my pride and ego would give a resounding … Read moreAre You A Good Lover?

Gratitude is a Great Attitude for Marriage

By Bret Legg 104| November 23, 2017

On Thanksgiving Day, it’s good to look at the role gratitude plays in marriage. Many marriages are unhappy, not because of big things like abuse or affairs, but because of … Read moreGratitude is a Great Attitude for Marriage

How to Fight the Good Fight

By Bret Legg 104| October 26, 2017

Some of my favorite movies (much to my wife’s dismay) are “The Matrix” trilogy of movies. They never get old to me. I can watch them over and over and … Read moreHow to Fight the Good Fight