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Most of us have normal marriages. Not perfect marriages and not Charlie Manson type marriages. Just normal marriages that are both fun and frustrating. The purpose of this blog is to help you enjoy your "less-than-perfect normal marriage."

Falling Behind

By Bret Legg 104| September 1, 2015

Have you ever felt like you’re falling so far behind on something that there’s little hope of getting back to where you need to be? Have you ever thought, “What the … Read more

Be an Amateur at Marriage

By Bret Legg 104| August 20, 2015

Every time I think I have this marriage thing figured out, something changes and I feel like I’m back to square one. I had just figured out how to be … Read more

Going From Zero to Sixty

By Bret Legg 104| August 13, 2015

There are car commercials that tell you how their car can go from zero to sixty in so many seconds. Then there are car commercials that tell you how their car can … Read more

One Thing You Must Do if Your Marriage is in a Rut

By Bret Legg 104| August 12, 2015

Ever feel like your life was in a rut? I was struck by that feeling this morning as I grabbed my usual stuff and headed out the usual door at the … Read more

3 Things You Need To Know

By Bret Legg 104| August 4, 2015

Right after we married, my wife and I moved 650 miles from home and I went to work in the oil fields of Oklahoma. Being young and inexperienced, they put … Read more

Little Things Mean A Lot – Manners

By Bret Legg 104| July 28, 2015

Parents spend a lot of time and energy teaching the importance of manners to their children. Parents constantly remind their children to say “please,”  “thank you,” and “may I.” They … Read more

Happily Ever After?

By Bret Legg 104| July 23, 2015

“And they all lived happily ever after.” We’ve heard these word as children, when our parents would read us our favorited story for the umpteenth time. We’ve heard these words as parents, … Read more

Rearranged

By Bret Legg 104| July 21, 2015

Strong marriages and families practice flexibility. Whether it’s with the introduction of the first child or the first grandchild, there’s a willingness to go with the flow and let life get rearranged. … Read more

The Check Engine Light

By Bret Legg 104| July 17, 2015

The dreaded check engine light. I don’t know about you, but I hate the check engine light. I always fear the worst when I see it. It’s like the amber … Read more

Going Through the Motions

By Bret Legg 104| July 9, 2015

Ever find yourself just going through the motions? You’re doing what you’re suppose to do. You’re doing what others expect you to do. But you’re only doing it so others … Read more