Truth that Makes a Difference

Finding meaning in life, marriage, and faith

This Isn’t the Spouse I Wanted!

June 10, 2014

“What happened to the person I married?”  “Where did that person go?”  “I want that person back.”  This is not the person I thought I was marrying.”  “This isn’t the … Read more

Do You Look For Affirmation in Public Opinion or Personal Conviction?

June 5, 2014

We never really outgrow the desire to be liked by others.  We can be a grown adult with children and grandchildren, and still be concerned about whether people like us. We don’t approach people and … Read more

Figuring Out What to Keep and What to Tweak

June 3, 2014

In the last post, we talked about what it means to have a “normal marriage.”  Here’s a quick recap: Everyone’s marriage is “normal”…for them. There are parts of “normal” that work and should … Read more

What is a Normal Marriage, and Is That Good or Bad?

May 27, 2014

When I started this blog, I didn’t really explain what I meant by the term “normal marriage.”  I just jumped right into talking about marriage and never really addressed it. … Read more

How to Have Power and Influence

May 22, 2014

Who doesn’t want to have power and influence?  That’s why people rise through the ranks, store up wealth, connect with the right people, and change things around them.  It’s a … Read more

Marriage Grammar – Verbs

May 20, 2014

Verbs are action words that gives life to a sentence.  Think of the sentence, “Dick and Jane played.”  If you take away the verb, all you have is “Dick and Jane.” … Read more

Why Did This Have To Happen?

May 16, 2014

How can someone be here one minute and gone the next?  How can life be going so well and then come undone?  How can I feel fine one day and get this … Read more

Why Can’t I Get What I Want?

May 13, 2014

Why can’t I get what I want?  Maybe you’ve asked that question in marriage.  Maybe it was when your spouse was not helping around the house.  Maybe it was when … Read more

Wisdom

May 8, 2014

Wisdom.  Who doesn’t want to be wise?  Everyone wants wisdom, especially when there’s an important decision to be made. So why is it wisdom sometimes eludes us?  We can all look … Read more

Good Funeral Stories

May 6, 2014

Next time you attend a funeral, listen to the conversations about the deceased.  I’m not talking about the carefully crafted, flowery words of the eulogy.  I’m talking about the side … Read more