Shouldn’t Spouses Be Compatible?
Compatibility. Â It’s the idea that if you can find a person with similar personality traits, similar interests, similar backgrounds, etc. then there will be a higher probability of the relationship … Read more
Good Guy or Bad Guy?
Who are the good guys and who are the bad guys? Â In the old westerns, all you had to do was see who was wearing the white hat and who … Read more
How Do You Find The Sweet Spot In Marriage?
There’s a sweet spot to many things in life. Â There’s a sweet spot on a baseball bat that sends the ball over the fence. Â There’s a sweet spot for musicians … Read more
Facing the Winds of Life
I grew up in the country with a lot of farmland and a lot of barns. Â On top of most of those barns was a weather vane. Â The weather vane … Read more
How Can You Sleep At A Time Like This?
When I was young, I fell asleep while a dentist was working on my teeth. Â I had not been given anything to relax me. Â I just fell asleep. Â The dentist … Read more
As Good As Sex…Almost
It was the biggest ice storms in ten years. Â Our power went out around 8:30 in the evening, so we lit candles and fired up the gas log in the … Read more
What Is Your Benchmark?
Surveyors use a benchmark to determine clear boundaries. Â A benchmark is a point of reference from which everything else is measured. Â It’s a point that’s unchanging and immovable, because a … Read more

