Shouldn’t Spouses Be Compatible?
Compatibility. It’s the idea that if you can find a person with similar personality traits, similar interests, similar backgrounds, etc. then there will be a higher probability of the relationship … Read more
Good Guy or Bad Guy?
Who are the good guys and who are the bad guys? In the old westerns, all you had to do was see who was wearing the white hat and who … Read more
How Do You Find The Sweet Spot In Marriage?
There’s a sweet spot to many things in life. There’s a sweet spot on a baseball bat that sends the ball over the fence. There’s a sweet spot for musicians … Read more
Facing the Winds of Life
I grew up in the country with a lot of farmland and a lot of barns. On top of most of those barns was a weather vane. The weather vane … Read more
How Can You Sleep At A Time Like This?
When I was young, I fell asleep while a dentist was working on my teeth. I had not been given anything to relax me. I just fell asleep. The dentist … Read more
As Good As Sex…Almost
It was the biggest ice storms in ten years. Our power went out around 8:30 in the evening, so we lit candles and fired up the gas log in the … Read more
What Is Your Benchmark?
Surveyors use a benchmark to determine clear boundaries. A benchmark is a point of reference from which everything else is measured. It’s a point that’s unchanging and immovable, because a … Read more