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Most of us have normal marriages. Not perfect marriages and not Charlie Manson type marriages. Just normal marriages that are both fun and frustrating. The purpose of this blog is to help you enjoy your "less-than-perfect normal marriage."

How to Remove That Fishy Smell in Marriage

By Bret Legg 104| December 21, 2016

In my last Normal Marriage post, I talked about the fishy smell that occurs in marriage when you run away from something you know you need to do. In that … Read more

How to Avoid that Fishy Smell in Marriage

By Bret Legg 104| December 13, 2016

Even if you’re not particularly religious, you’re probably familiar with the biblical story of Jonah. Jonah was a guy who didn’t want to do what God wanted him to do. … Read more

Change Your Gratitude

By Bret Legg 104| November 24, 2016

Have you ever wished you could change your marriage? Maybe you were at odds with your spouse or maybe your marriage had just become mundane and predictable. Whatever it was, … Read more

How to Move From a Marriage That’s Stuck to a Marriage That Sticks

By Bret Legg 104| November 14, 2016

Ok, confession time. When I was a teenager, I got stuck parking. I’m not talking about parking your car in a parking spot at Walmart. I’m talking about getting stuck … Read more

Derailing Disappointment

By Bret Legg 104| October 31, 2016

If you’ve ever been disappointed, you know how easy it is for disappointment to derail you. I see this with my grandchildren. They always have a list of things they … Read more

The Power of a Few Seconds

By Bret Legg 104| October 27, 2016

Sometime back I was listening to a news report about a school shooting when I heard the newscaster say, “It only took 80 seconds for a high school senior to enter … Read more

How to Improve Your Marriage Pictures

By Bret Legg 104| October 20, 2016

We’ve all had our share of bad photos. Think back to your fashion-questionable high school days, or those family portraits that looked more like the Adams Family than a happy … Read more

Has Your Marriage Been Hacked By a Virus?

By Bret Legg 104| October 12, 2016

Computer viruses are maddening. When a virus gets into your computer, it changes the way your computer operates. All of a sudden the computer doesn’t work as smoothly as it use … Read more

Movie Disagreement Disorder

By Bret Legg 104| September 28, 2016

I’m a Star Wars husband married to a Lifetime movie wife.  This weekend, TNT ran a back-to-back Star Wars marathon. I was ecstatic. My wife…not so much. When I got married, … Read more

Marriage Is Like A Dented Fender

By Bret Legg 104| September 6, 2016

A few weeks ago, I had a fender bender coming home from work. It was a very minor fender bender. No one was hurt. There was only a small amount … Read more